What should I do? Many would-be expats frequently consider being able to speak only English more of a problem than the locals do. Let me explain. If you approach it with a good attitude, English will suffice nearly everywhere. Considered to be the universal tongue, English is the preferred second language in a lot of countries. You may not understand or speak the native language at all, but if the inhabitants know that you are making an attempt, most of them will try to help you out.

For example, French people are said to be rather unfriendly – especially towards tourist who don’t even try to speak a lick of French. Well, I have to speak up for the French here. I imagine that, just like some of us are unfriendly, some of them are, as well. I spent some time in Paris when I studied there, and all of the French people I encountered were friendly and hospitable. This has been the experience of my children and their friends as well. I was not fluent in French at all upon my arrival. What little French I did know, I spoke to the locals right from the very beginning of my time there. Making that sincere attempt can make a big difference. I stumbled over my poor French vocabulary at first, struggling to communicate in an understandable manner. I can remember the amused expression on the proprietor’s face, as I mangled the language.

I had only uttered two sentences, and the gentleman praised me on my accent and said he liked the way I spoke French. He then informed me that he could speak English and welcomed the opportunity to practice his English on me. The relief I felt at having someone to speak English to was palpable. I visited his shop many times for animated conversations in both English and French, even after I had become a lot more adept in speaking French.

When tourists try to speak French, the French people find it very entertaining. International travel is a lot of fun. You get to experience new things and try out different cultures. There are even things for you to experience that you might not be comfortable with but that is what makes the adventure truly memorable. Trying new and different things allows for personal growth and an exciting new experience with tons of incredible memories.

It’s frequently helpful for you to get some instruction in the native language of your new nation. It’s a sign of esteem for the home residents, and something they will really thank you for. Your consideration will go a long way in making them accept you as their pal.

If you balk at the thought of retiring overseas because of the language barrier, this is something you may want to reconsider. It is relatively simple and inexpensive to learn another language. Retiring overseas doesn’t absolutely require you to learn to speak another language, but personally, I would make a determined effort to speak the language of a country I was going to live in. But, that’s me.

When living as an expatriate, you can gain deeper insight into cultural nuances by becoming fluent in the native language. Becoming immersed in another culture can be a very rewarding experience and learning the language becomes all that much easier.

I could speak French fluently, and I was breathing, living, thinking, and even dreaming in French when I left. During my flight home on Air France, the flight attendant spoke English to me, and, without thinking, I answered in French. When I tried to switch back to English, I had to really think about the equivalent words in English. I continued to think in French. What a great experience. I still laugh when I remember that. I will never forget my treasured time in France and how learning the language deepened my pleasure in the experience.

Jackie Collins has researched language acquisition for more than 30 years. She knows it has never been easier to learn another language . So, learn to speak fluently, confidently, and naturally before you retire abroad. Visit our blog and subscribe to our newsletter for more details.